Rocklin Family Launches Foundation to Aid Stillbirth Families

URGENT UPDATE: A Rocklin family is taking immediate action to support other families navigating the devastating experience of stillbirth and infant loss. Katy and Brian Herman have launched the Born Sleeping Foundation in memory of their son, Wesley Dean Herman, who was stillborn on April 11, 2021.

Every year in the United States, over 21,000 babies are stillborn, with California averaging more than 2,100 fetal deaths annually. The Hermans, heartbroken but determined, are working to ensure that families facing similar losses receive compassionate support during their most challenging times.

Katy Herman recalls the moment she learned of Wesley’s death due to a true knot in his umbilical cord. “No one should have to go through this. The sad reality is people do,” she stated. The memory of holding her son remains heavy in her heart, underscoring the urgent need for resources to help families process their grief.

After Wesley’s birth, an emotional moment sparked a powerful idea for the Hermans. “I looked out in my backyard, and I just saw some butterflies fluttering by. I just knew at that moment that, that was our symbol,” Katy recounted. This moment inspired the creation of the foundation, focusing on providing tangible support to grieving families.

In collaboration with Sutter Medical Center Sacramento’s High Risk Maternity Unit, which sees three to five infant deaths per month, the Hermans have donated a Cuddle Cot. This innovative device is a cooling pad that allows families to keep their babies close for extended periods, offering a chance to grieve in their own time. “This Cuddle Cot has allowed that the baby can be at the bedside for really as long as the family is ready to let go,” explained Cherie Abercrombie, clinical manager at Sutter Medical Center.

Each Cuddle Cot costs around $3,000, and the Born Sleeping Foundation has already raised enough money to purchase and donate nearly 30 Cuddle Cots to hospitals across California, Nevada, Washington, and Texas. “It just gives the gift of time to families who go through stillbirth or infant loss,” said Katy Herman.

The Hermans emphasize their commitment to helping families through their grief journey. “My thing is, say yes. Say yes until it stops,” Katy urged. They are dedicated to supporting families as they navigate the painful reality of loss, turning their personal tragedy into a source of hope for others.

For those interested in supporting the mission or learning more about the Born Sleeping Foundation, visit: bornsleepingfoundation.org. This foundation is not just a symbol of remembrance; it represents a lifeline for families seeking comfort and understanding in their darkest hours.